Moskowitz explains that two common problems often arise: either a party fails to clear vacation dates with the other, or a parent plans a vacation that conflicts or is not approved by the other parent.  What parents should know, is that vacation plans can be established in a divorce settlement.  Parents can decide if they will switch off every year or if they will schedule around each other to take the kids on two vacations (one with each parent).

If parents want to vacation in the summer with their children every year, they should establish dates for their trips as soon as January comes around to give their ex-spouse plenty of notice.  Moskowitz specifically recommends establishing the plans in writing. “There’s no substitute for preparing and no better way to prevent confusion than getting the plan in writing,” he says. “Ideally, parents do it that way from the first year of a divorce and make it an annual practice.”

As a final thought, Moskowitz reminds parents that even though vacations are fun, they are also important to you and your children.  Individual parents should never feel they need to give up their vacation time with thier kids because this time is very special.  It doesn’t matter where the location of the trip is, but the time of undivided attention for your child is priceless.

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Explore our Nation’s State Parks. There are national parks and monuments in every state. Most are free or low-cost and have a variety of affordable activities, such as hiking, biking, horseback riding, or boating. Plus, camping in national parks is more affordable than traditional camp sites! Let your kids run off some energy and show them some of our nation’s most beautiful places.

Stay With Family and Friends. Reconnect with family members or friends that you are not able to see often. Not only will this save costs, but it will help you stay connected and introduce your children to family members and friends they might not have met.

Go Off the Beaten Path. Visit a ski resort in the summer or stay away from “tourist traps.” The prices are cheaper and you’ll avoid the crowds.

Stay Close To Home. Camp out in your backyard! It’s free, convenient, and guaranteed fun for your kids. Or, you can stay in a nearby hotel or campground. You don’t need to go far from home to have fun and give your kids some excitement.

Don’t stress about your summer vacation! Get creative and focus on the reason for getting away – to spend quality time together and create lasting memories.

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